The Unprepared Father

Happy Mom's Day?

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So a lot has happened since I last posted.  It's a sort of, good news / bad news type of posting today. About two weeks ago the doctor's found a white spot on the heart of my baby via ultrasound.  Now, while this was said to be "not uncommon," it did create a "twice...

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The Rockstar's Guide to Fatherhood - Three Important Lessons for Any Dad.

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As a touring musician who endured near claustrophobic circumstances in an oft-crowded tour bus with other smelly musicians, you would likely think that I learned nothing about being a good dad during those years.  And generally, though much of the experience wasn't "kid...

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Babykicks & Heartbeeps.

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Last night I felt the baby kick for the first time.  I had dropped by baby's momma's house after assisting with her roommate's tire change (long story) and as we sat on the couch, she grabbed my hand and placed it on her growing belly. "You feel that?" I did feel...

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Babies are like Christmas.

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I sort of had an idea, with the couple of baby showers that I had inadvertently walked into over the years, that having a baby meant you got some presents.  Besides seeing women eating candy bars out of diapers and playing "Pin the Sperm on the Egg" it also seemed...

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The Family Car.

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Did you guys ever make one of those "Dream Sheets?"  You know, the list where your write down  all of the things that you'll get when you make the right amount of money: things like a pony, a brick of gold, or a night with Megan Fox?  Well, I made one.  Mine (oddly, and...

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Family Values.

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Having a baby on the way has made me reflect a lot lately on "family values."  The one thing about every church, organization, and political party is that these are something that people can leave or change.  A family - someones DNA, their blood - those are things that...

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It's a Boy!

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The ultrasound this morning produced enough sure evidence that I can say with nearly 100% confidence that we are having a baby boy.  In fact, this baby boy was so well-endowed that I can say, without even needing to go on the Maury Povich show, that it is definitely mine...

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Impatience is a Virtue.

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Is it just me, or do all parents feel this way?  I'm impatient.  I want to know what the sex of my baby is and I want to know now.  What are we naming him... or her?  Do I buy a little baseball glove or am I going to be buying barbie dolls?  Do I paint the room pink or...

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To Circumcise?

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I just got done watching an episode of Strange Sex on Discovery Health, and pigeoned between a segment about "a woman with two vaginas and two uteruses who was having a baby" and a piece on "a woman who was born with male chromosomes but had female sex organs," was the...

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The Unprepared Father

The Unprepared Father

I am the very definition of an unprepared father. It's been 7 years since I've even had a traditional relationship. Probably nothing about this child's life will be ordinary, but I am committed to one idea - "I want to be a good father!"

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